最近太多人要結婚了…
即使是要做人情, 即使形式和酒菜也差不多千遍一律, 我還是喜歡別人邀請我…
因為這是一對新人最快樂的時刻, 尤其看到新娘的甜美笑容或是感動而流的眼淚, 我認為能分享這刻的幸福, 是最好不過。
只是真的去到這個年紀, 就一定要想到結婚?
至少原來我發覺, 即使外表更堅強的女人, 最終還是想嫁人…..
男人卻不同, 男人以事業為重, 通常完成了某些目標後, 才打算結婚….而男人會認為結婚後的生活與婚前是截然不同….
於是我仍然聽到很多男性朋友說: 還未玩夠….
女子卻只能黙黙的等待……
當然, 也有這不是男女的分別, 因為也有女子覺得還未可以結婚, 而男子黙黙等待的情形…
我不明白，結婚後又有什麼分別? 難道拍拖的就不需要承諾和責任?
那婚姻是什麼? 是承諾? 得到了承諾那又如何?
我認為能夠找到真切地認為對方是可終老的對象，希望可以餘下人生與對方一起渡過，一起共同目標，這才是重要…..然後，你會發現結婚也許只是一種形式，結婚證書也只是一張紙….
明白了結婚是什麼回事, 別為結婚而結婚......
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Yes, a couple in order to be the [infinity members]in a relationship, binding by true love is more effective than the certificate.
We should highly appreicated those [infinity members]...hurray
1 我是男人，但我不等待要完成什麼目標後才結婚。唯一要完成的目標，就是要儲夠「三十萬」。或者我不是正常的男人。
2 世俗的結緍是一種形式，但這代表一生一世的承諾。結婚證書是一張紙，但它代表法律上家庭的成立。教會內的結緍，代表一對夫妻在天主內結合：「凡天主所結合的，人不可拆散」（瑪19:6)。當然現代社會對婚姻的觀念變了，但我仍相信婚姻的價值。或者我不是正常的人。
唔好意思~~我一個唔覺意結左婚~~~哈哈!
To f.c.k_h:
Yes. To become 'infinity member', no matter in a relationship or other matter, it must have costs. Worth or not? Definitely not because too expensive but I have already joined.
To Leonard,
To save $300K is already a target, from my point of view. Carry on! If you need financial assistance, I will lend to you at a 'lower' interest.
To Teddy,
Well, thanks for your 唔覺意 so that I can have chance to attend your wedding party and if not, I cannot have chance to become a 'mother'...haha....soon...
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